How are you living? Do you find yourSelf allowing life to happen + responding with grace or do you find yourSelf DISallowing + reacting to life in victim mode. I know for certain that we all fluctuate between the two unless you are an enlightened being in which case you wouldn’t be reading this!
I find that when I am in touch with my INner being + peaceful that I am allowing my life to flow with grace. On the opposite end of the spectrum when I am disconnected from my INner being I am DISallowing + in reactive mode. Literally DISSING mySelf.
So what’s the secret to allowing vs DISallowing? And, who wants to DISS themSelf??? When you pull away from the flow of life and push against what is in front of you, you are DISallowing. You can be passionate, creative, loving, and still allow life to happen. The challenge is when we aren’t happy with something we push it away and think it’s going to sort itself out. It doesn’t. There is a sense of surrender in allowing. It doesn’t mean to let people manipulate you or push you around. It means that you see a situation for what it is + you either make a conscious choice to accept it or make a move. Making a move is part of allowing. It is allowing yourSelf to be in a moment with awareness + choice. Shifting your perspective, opening up to Awareness, being Present. Staying + being miserable in a web is DISallowing. Untangle yourSelf because you CAN.